Dear Writers: It's Okay Not To Suffer
Writing can be hard sometimes. But it doesn’t ALWAYS need to be hard. And that’s okay. Do writers need to suffer? The stereotypes of starving artists and writers who go mad seems to be the most common representation of writers and creators. Sometimes we buy into this. It feels like in order to be a good writer we should be suffering for our art. Like our art isn’t real if we’re not sacrificing our mental stability and putting our most treasured relationships at risk. But here’s the thing: Suffering doesn’t necessarily make our art better. In fact, research has shown that experiencing significant distress may actually decrease the quality of our creative work. What does this mean? Obviously suffering can’t always be avoided. Life isn’t always happy or fair. Sometimes all we can do is manage the hard times as best we can. But it’s important to remember to strive for wellness. To know that we are worth caring for. We don’t want to buy into the suffering a...